a girl textingOkay ladies, listen up! Men love it when you talk dirty to them. It makes them feel wanted and if you know anything about men, they need to feel like they are wanted.

Now, you can beat around the bush in telling him how much you want him, need him, and can’t wait to be with him, or you can talk dirty to him to get him really hot and bothered!

Are you feeling a bit uncomfortable reading this or at the thought of sending those naughty little messages? Don’t worry, you aren’t alone as many women don’t feel totally comfortable talking dirty to their man at first as it can take a little practice. However, when you talk dirty to your man via text message, it can make it far easier than face to face.

Once you get started and you start to see how much he is loving it you will be surprised at how quickly you get into the groove and enjoy playing with him in this way. Basically, the more you do it, the easier it will become. Continue reading to learn some helpful tips you can use right now as you make your man feel wanted, horny and eager to see you.

Tips For Sexting Your Man

First of all, do what you can to find out what your man likes and doesn’t like. Pay attention to what really seems to turn him on in particular when the two of you are together. Once you have some sexting ammo, start to use it to your advantage to send his pulse racing as he reads your messages.

The more personal you can make your dirty talk, the more it will affect your man and keep him on his toes waiting for the next text from you. For instance, if he really likes role play and you know he likes nurses, text him about you being a naughty nurse that can make his sexual fantasies come true.


Next, find the appropriate times to text your man with your dirty talk. If you know he’s in a meeting, try not to interrupt him with your texts because your words will be getting him all hot and bothered. The last thing he will want is to get wood in the middle of an important meeting! And you know you don’t want him getting that way when he’s in a room with co-workers. Also, make sure that he doesn’t leave his phone unattended or you may end up talking dirty to someone other than your man and that never ends up good.

a guy receiving a text messageStart Off Slow

One way to start is by being a bit more subtle at first and then gradually turning up the heat with your naughtiness. This is usually preferred by women who are not so used to sexting. If you are more confident or if you have some experience with dirty talk then you can surprise him out of the blue with a slutty message. Telling him what you want to do to him or how it feels so good when he does ‘X’ to you can be an excellent way to raise his eyebrows and um, a smile.

Use Pauses

One great way to be more seductive speaks more softly to strategically use pauses at specific times while you are talking. The texting equivalent of this would be to send a short message but don’t quite finish what you are saying and press ‘send’. Then sending the second or third part of the message a minute or so after the first one. This can help to create some curiosity and intrigue as he eagerly waits for your next message, wondering what you are going to say.

Get Dirty With It

When you are ready and you feel the time is right, start to use those really dirty words to drive him wild. Don’t over-do it, but surprising him with a bit of filth now and then can turn a guy on like you wouldn’t believe. Guys want their woman to be a lady in public, but behave very erotically with him behind closed doors.

You can make this technique even more effective when you use a sensual tonality and whisper the words in his ear. Inserting pauses strategically juts before you say the sexy words will make him hyper-responsive to your suggestions and the suspense will turn him on even more.


As you can see, through taking time to talk dirty to your man through text messaging, you can really help to improve your relationship. Make sure that your dirty talk is something you know he will appreciate. If you aren’t sure what he likes yet, just make your talk generic until you learn more about how to really get under his skin (in a good way). Then, make sure that when you send the texts, you don’t have to worry about someone other than your man reading it. You will open up many doors when you talk dirty to your man and sexual adventures abound can soon follow, which can really spice up your relationship and bring the two of you closer together.

As we mentioned at the beginning of this article, talking dirty to a man makes them feel good as they feel like you really want them. They will then, in turn, be keen to show you how much they appreciate and want you too. This helps to strengthen the connection in your relationship and build a strong bond between the two of you.