attractive-womanThere has been a great deal of research that is done every year regarding what people will find attractive in the opposite sex. If you are a woman, it is going to be a good idea to dive a bit deeper into some of the top qualities that men will find attractive. Believe it or not, there is a lot more going on in a man’s mind than just looks.

Yes, of course, primarily most men will be attracted to the physical appearance of a woman. However, there is so much more that makes a woman attractive to a guy, and there are various traits that guys are subconsciously drawn to that creates the feeling of attraction in them.

The good news is that many of these traits and qualities have little to do with your physical appearance. That means that over time you can start to incorporate these traits into who you are as a person and begin to manifest a more attractive presence to guys.

These are some of the different qualities that a guy is longing for in a long-term relationship and a partner.


While this may seem like a basic characteristic to some, it can be one of the most important in the eyes of men. The wonderful thing about kindness is that it does not cost a single thing. Even small acts of kindness like letting the other party order first out to dinner, showing consideration to others, showing up on time, and meeting for a quick visit and bringing a snack to share can go a long way.

Guys like this in a woman because it shows them that potentially you may be a good mother to their kids if the two of you were actually to have any together.

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Take being cool and throw it right out the window. Simply showing interest and being assertive by making the first move can be very attractive. If you are new to being assertive, try positive body language. This can include keeping eye contact, leaning in toward him during conversation or even buying his next round.

Although this can me attractive to many guys, it is important not to over-do it. Being subtly assertive from time to time can make a guy start to wonder if you will also be more frisky between the sheets! No guy likes a woman just to lay there in bed while he get’s his groove on. Guys like to be with a woman who will be active, adventurous and passionate in bed. Showing that you have a bit of assertion about you may make them think that you could be more willing to also take the lead occasionally when the lights go out, which is a good thing!

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Nobody wants to have a dark cloud looming over them, and attractiveness is much more than skin deep. Men are generally attracted to a woman who is cheerful, positive and pleasant to be around and interact with. While nobody can have a happy face on every day of the week, if you focus on being positive, friendly and are open to meeting different, new people, it will be a win all around.


You wouldn’t like to be lied to, so you need to remember that the street goes both ways. When it comes to attraction, men are always going to be attracted to a woman who can be honest as they can picture a faithful bond in a relationship.

Everyone is different, so when you are looking at different men and what they find attractive in women, there can be variances. However, a lot of the core facets that attract men will remain the same. Overall, be true to yourself and you will be able to attract the right man to be in your life for the long term.

Here are five more simple ways that you can improve your attractiveness to guys.